Is there such a thing as a work-life balance for small business owners.
Being a one-person business isn’t just a job; it’s a 24/7 commitment, and when life throws those annoying and unexpected challenges your way – family illnesses or your kids needing you more or whatever – it can feel like the weight of the world is on your shoulders.
You feel pulled in all directions. You feel guilty that you’re not looking after the business when looking after the kids, and feel guilty that you’re not caring for the kids properly because you have work to take care of.
I’ve been there. A lot.
So I want to share my thoughts on finding some kind of order while remembering what really matters in the hope of achieving that elusive work-life balance for small business owners.
Feeling lonely?
Running your own business can be great, but let’s face it – it can also feel pretty lonely. When life gets tough, and it’s just you to sort it out, asking for help is crucial.
Know your limits
As solopreneurs, we wear many hats – the accountant, the tea maker, the marketer – you name it! But the truth is that you can’t do it all, especially when life throws a curveball into the mix. Recognise where your limits are and understand that it’s okay to say no, or to ask for help.
Take a step back
When your family’s needs take priority, it’s not a sign of weakness to take a step back from your business. In fact, it takes real courage! And also quite a bit of organisation.
Outsourcing
Can you outsource any tasks that don’t need your personal touch? Virtual assistants, freelancers etc can be an absolute lifeline when you need a bit of support, without having the commitment of hiring a full-time employee.
Build a support system
Whether it’s a mentor, fellow business owners, or friends who understand the challenges you face, having a support system is invaluable. You can share your worries, get advice, and remind yourself that you’re not alone.
Prioritise self-care
As I’ve got older I’ve realised that taking care of yourself isn’t a luxury – it’s a necessity! While your business might feel like your ‘baby’, remember that putting family and your health first is much more important for your general happiness and getting that work-life balance.
Take a break
Schedule breaks throughout your day, even if they’re super-short. You might like to go for a walk, a moment of meditation, or just step away from your desk or workshop can do wonders for your mental well-being.
Set boundaries
Try to have clear boundaries between your work and personal life. The lines can get a bit blurred when you find yourself sitting on the sofa cuddling your poorly child while also working on your laptop to meet a deadline, but whenever possible, it’s best to have limits!
Don’t forget you’re normal!
As solopreneurs, we can feel the pressure, the solitude, and also the joy of building something from the ground up. We all go through these highs and lows for various reasons, so when life gets hard, don’t hesitate to reach out for help. Getting a good work-life balance for small business owners is difficult, but not impossible!
We can do this!